Tomorrow is the first day of my divorce negotiations. We have engaged with a mediator as opposed to taking the adversarial approach. We’ve already discussed much of the detail, and have come to some broad agreements as to what we both see as reasonable. The biggest conflict is likely to be around the medical situation.… Continue reading Divorce negotiations
The reason my relationship failed with my wife is that we were sexually incompatible. I’m tired of reading the standard thinking that good sex comes with love – I believe that you can’t have a lasting love without good sex. Myself and H never had even an OK sexual relationship – not even at the beginning… Continue reading Love doesn’t work without sex
Tonight I will attend the engagement party of some good friends of mine. I’ve been making a lot of jokes lately about how crazy the whole concept of marriage is to me. You could argue that I am a little bitter, and have been stung by the ending of my marriage, but I don’t think… Continue reading Why I am against marriage, and monogamy, and for safe sex.
I’ve been living separate to my wife for around four months. She left to visit relatives in early October 2016, about a week after I first started talking to A. Four weeks later, the day before she was due to fly back to the USA, I told her that I didn’t want to be with… Continue reading How I ended my ten-year marriage by text
Dearest A The relationship with his child is the most wondrous thing for a man. You see, I feel that you are a part of my family now – a treasured joy. I’ve adopted you. I’ll not let any harm come to you, and you are in my custody. You are safe. I’m a tireless… Continue reading A letter to my love
I’m totally and overwhelming taken by you. I’m toast right now – burned and blackened and inedible. I’m a mess of love, and sadness, and jealousy for everyone that gets to spend time with you over the next month. I never thought I’d find a love like this. I’ve hurt every day that you’ve been… Continue reading On our parting…
I’m coming close to the end of my vacation with her. It’s been close to perfect. I have been introduced to her friends, and we’ve explored the best of the islands. Now I have to wait six weeks until she moves back to the mainland, and into my apartment. It’s a long wait, but we’ve… Continue reading End of the vacation